Accountability Circle Gone Wrong

            This week didn’t go how I planned.

I had every intention of holding myself accountable—sticking to my goals, saving money, and showing up consistently.

But if I’m being honest…

I didn’t.

And instead of hiding that, I’m choosing to share it.

Because this journey isn’t about perfection—it’s about awareness.

At this point in the week, I felt motivated. I had a clear vision of what I wanted to do and how I wanted to show up.

But something I’m starting to notice about myself is this:

I start strong… and then I slowly fall off. I could have hidden this from you, I could have waited until I actually did well, to post this. But, I'd rather let you see that saying you're going to do something, well, that can be really HARD!!! As humans, we will FAIL and FAIL again and again!!! What's the trick?

This is me being real.

I didn’t stick to my no-spend goal.
I ate out.
I avoided things I said I would do.

And I could sit here and beat myself up for it…

But I’m choosing something different.

The trick my friend... is to keep showing up, keep trying, keep holding yourself accountable! The moment you give up is the only time you actually fail! I don't mean give up for the time being. I mean, giving up forever. Take a break away but COME BACK TO IT!! That is not failure, that is overwhelm, and we all get overwhelmed! 

What has your week looked like? Did you have failures, or maybe some wins? 

I created a guide to help people become more self-aware check it out: CLICK HERE

The Accountability Circle Diary Video

   
First off... These videos will be coming Weekly, Not Daily! :) I had to re-adjust to fit my life! 

We all need to hold ourselves accountable for something... right? If we don't, we just start moving aimlessly through life without a care in the world, making more mistakes without any goals or rewards to guide us!

    Sitting at my desk, my mind keeps circling. Should I just order out tonight? Feeding five people is at least $60, but cooking at home is basically free. And yet, those ads, the convenience—it all calls out to me. But then I remind myself: I’ve got stomach issues. Why mess that up, and why spend money that could get me closer to my dream? I think I’m always searching for that reward, that pat on the back. I started young, had kids early, and rarely put myself first. But maybe this new accountability is how I reconstruct things. Maybe it’ll help you, too—what’s one thing you’ve been trying to overcome?